It is every girl's dream to have an insanely handsome man who sweeps them off their feet. A man who always knows what to say and what to do, a man with the most beautiful eyes and a perfect jawline on a symmetrical face and a good baritone voice is something most ladies would jump at a chance of having. We always dream of various things when we think of who to date and who you want to spend the rest of your life, but sometimes our expectations are often met with lonely realities.
It is essential to realize that nobody is perfect; we are all flawed. Perfection is relative, and it is often what we create in our heads; having a list of every detail that we would want this man to have. An ideal man for you might not be an ideal one for me, but all in all, wanting to find a man who checks all the boxes on your list has proven not very successful in the past and most of us end up single for a long time because no man can meet up to our ideal plans. This does not mean that you should not have an idea of what you want in a man and settle for anyone who comes your way… it is just that some of the things we would like our perfect men to have are just too good to be true.
Some of the qualities that indicate a good man include: a man who listens and communicates effectively, supports your achievements and motivates you to become a better version of yourself; A man who makes you laugh and feel good about yourself. Other qualities that make a man desirable are a man who looks after his relationship and knows how to treat you right. These are qualities you should put on your “ideal man” list. Do not settle for violence, irresponsible and immaturity… just because “your” perfect man hasn’t come along yet.
Your perfect man (even if they may not look perfect) will come along when you least expect it…Hang in there!